That’s why your single

Yes some random guy decided to drop that ‘truth bomb’ on me because I didn’t want to shake his hand as I was walking down Hollywood. Now I want to be clear he was dressed Christmas Spiderman so was one of the people who get tips from tourists for posing with them. So in my …

Uber sex in the city – car tales

So am driving today and got reminded that dating is freaking hard as hell in Los Angeles! Two riders got in the car and was talking about one girls midweek date. She had gone and met the OKCupid date at his apt (first mistake of online dating) but had been mislead by the zip code …

As 2014 draws to an end

Urghh I was really hoping for a major fun party this NYE and even had my dream dress in mind from Eloquii that’s all about my ‘stand out from the crowd’ sexy up my style! But alas no plans for NYE so am going to be home in sweatpants in front of my new LG …

Not a match.com fan

Normally the match ads just pass over and are the usual bland not well done schlock you see all the time.  But this ad just rubs me the wrong way on so many levels.  From the man who says a ‘girl I was interested in’ and the douche host shaking his fists urgh just makes …

Phew I survived Valentines week

Am I bitter or does it seem like Valentine’s is inching to a week?  They started talking about the holiday of ‘gift giving’ mid-January with the usual slap to the face of those who are single.   It’s the constant spend money spend money spend money refrain to show love with $$$$.  To spend as …

Los Angeles Times THE TASTE (August 30 – Sept 1st)

From the Opening Night kick-off celebration on Friday, August 30th to the final sip taken at Cocktail Confidential on Sunday, September 1st, each TASTE event will feature unlimited tastings, specialty cocktails, wine seminars, live demos with our hosts (and more) and, of course, inspired conversations. Opening Night Presented by Tequila Don Julio. All of our hosts and many of the weekend’s participating chefs and bartenders will come …

It’s Valentines but don’t be blue

          Yes it’s Valentine’s Day and I’m .. dum dum dum single but it’s OK.  I know that most people think of the holiday as couple central but I look at as a holiday celebrating love in all it’s many faceted glory.       So let’s count down what Valentine …

How to flirt in time for Valentines

Well another Valentines is almost here and I still haven’t met ‘the one’ or even ‘the adequate’ guy of my disappointed dreams! I can’t figure out if it’s me or just that I’m fated to be terminally single ala Bridget Jones  not that I’ve given up but I do have a bottle of Karma Tequila in …

Are you flirting with me?

Oh my gosh I’m watching ‘The Mindy Project’ and am having such a moment. I swear that romantic comedies have ruined me for romance.  Always looking for the perfect guy that you get to ‘meet cute’.  You know where you meet at the bookstore perusing the science fiction/fantasy section and casually strike up a conversation …

Maybe my type is wrong for me?

Hmmm like a lot of people I’m looking for love.  I’m pretty flexible on my physical type but am very firm on education, temperament, sense of ‘adventure’, ability to have fun and well having a personality!  As I’ve dated all through my 20s, 30s and am now in the dreaded 40s .. duh duh duh (sound …